A Real
Communication Flair, Part 3
How we
Use (and Abuse) Language
One of the thought-provoking aspects of human nature
and interaction portrayed in Sparks’ songs is what we reveal about ourselves in
the language we choose to communicate or conceal our feelings or intentions.
Although the scenarios depicted are sometimes bizarre or humorous, the
situations are nevertheless profoundly relatable, with insights that really
resonate. All human nature is there. It really does seem that there is a Sparks
song for every situation. How many times a day do you think, ‘that reminds me
of a Sparks song…’?
As we know, the listener is often challenged to read between
the lines. The satirical ‘Suburban Homeboy’, (Lil’ Beethoven, 2002), for
example, is a song that is both humorous but with a serious subtext, typical of
Sparks. It satirises a middle-class white man who wants to seem trendy by
adopting street-wise language habits and interests, thus throwing a spotlight
on the issues of social and racial stereotyping and cultural appropriation.
These class and race issues are glaringly apparent in the narrator’s
self-promoting boasting (‘I say ‘Yo Dog!’ to my pool-cleaning guy’), which
reveals that he is both socially insensitive and unaware of the absurdity of
his over-the-top posturing. His status and lifestyle are both transformed (in
his eyes) and revealed to us by the artificial performative use of language: he
has a ‘suburban ho’ by his side, wears cornrows (from Amazon) and listens to
rap music and Farrakhan, but his suburban home context is actually one of golf,
car detailing and an Oxford and Cambridge mentality. Like the young guy in
‘Popularity’, he aspires to an image which is at odds with the truth, no
matter, in this case, how hard he tries to assert it. The jaunty delivery and
melody emphasises his misplaced self-satisfaction and encourages ridicule.
The use of language to obscure, confuse or avoid is tackled
in ‘So Tell Me, Mrs Lincoln, Aside From That How Was The Play’ (Hippopotamus
2017). The old joke in the title itself illustrates the theme of the
avoidance of discussing a subject that the speaker finds painful or
embarrassing by chatting about something totally different and potentially both
irrelevant and insensitive. This time, we share the point of view of the
listener in an (unheard) one-sided conversation in which, it seems, much is
said but little communicated. He is irritated by the speaker’s prevarication
and the flow of conversation that is clearly ‘always the subtext, never the
text’, as his interlocutor will not get to the point ‘always the surface, never
the heart’. Is the narrator expecting the ending of a relationship, or what? He
fidgets, ‘nodding my head like a bobblehead doll’, and his mind wanders while
the conversation meanders on, ‘stalling without strategic intent’. He is
clearly doomed to ‘miss the bus’ in more ways than one: ‘what lies underneath
it all?’. The anonymous speaker’s avoidance strategy is transparent, yet we are
left wondering why the frustrated narrator does not intervene. Why is he so
passive? Perhaps he too wants to avoid confronting the truth? This has clearly
happened before, and his attitude (‘Don’t interrupt, you’ll just cause a fuss’)
suggests that he is to an extent complicit in the failure to get to the heart
of the matter. We have probably all been there at one time or another.
A different scenario between couples is at the heart of
‘Something for the Girl with Everything ‘ (Propaganda 1974), in which it
is fear of what speech might communicate that is at issue. Unlike the narrator
of ‘So Tell Me Mrs Lincoln’, this guy takes drastic steps to buy his girl’s
silence, inundating her with gifts, because she knows about his past (‘she knew
you way back when you weren’t yourself’) and he fears revelations that might
incriminate him. All the gifts are aimed
at impeding speech or memory: sweets (‘Don’t try to talk my dear/Your tiny
little mouth is full’), a car (‘I hope it takes you fast and far’) with a loud
engine (‘Nobody’s gonna hear a thing you say’), and other gifts ‘that aid
amnesia’. When unavoidable, her power of speech is strictly controlled (‘say no
more than just hello’) and her speechlessness explained as shyness because ‘of
late she’s been quite speechless’. What might seem generosity in the title line
is gradually revealed as sinister and self-serving behaviour by a lover wracked
with anxiety and guilt, a mood aptly represented by the frenetic pace of his
words and the music, which end on that dramatic high note. This is one of those songs which offers
another level of meaning, prompting the listener to imagine a number of
possible back stories to this couple’s relationship.
The recent ‘i-Phone’ (A
Steady Drip, Drip, Drip, 2020) depicts a more wide-ranging
communication problem, as various scenarios from history are marshalled to
illustrate a very contemporary source of annoyance. Humour lies in the
anachronistic evocation of situations in which Adam and Eve and Abraham Lincoln
are forced to rage ‘Put your fucking i-Phone down and listen to me’ in order to
make themselves heard. The third example is the forlorn wife of the developer
of the i-phone himself, Steve Jobs, who sobs that she can not communicate with
her mega-busy husband. This song may also be intended to allude to the
annoyance many artists feel at seeing a sea of phone screens held up during
live performances. Sparks, of course, are very polite, but if this song is
performed live at the upcoming concerts, perhaps we should take notice!
In ‘Piss Off’ (FFS, 2015), the narrators (in this case
both Russell and Alex Kapranos of Frantz Ferdinand) are annoyed by the
unrelenting conversation of people who like the sound of their own voices,
recommending forthright measures to get rid of them. The insistence of
meaningless social chitchat is captured in the lines : ‘It’s inexplicable/ But
still they’re eager to explain/ It’s inapplicable/ But they’ll apply it all the
same/ It’s irrefutable/ But still their arguments remain’, the elegance
of which is contrasted with the firm and unequivocal ‘Piss Off’, as social
norms and the chatterers are shown the door. Sung with gusto, that’s certainly
getting right to the point! The disillusioned speaker wants to engage with the
outside world (’fantasise, socialize, harmonize’) but is turned off because
‘all the voices sound beyond repair’. He foresees a future in which culture has
become reduced to ‘football and cheap alcohol’, but at least he will be able to
add to his colourful ‘portfolio of epithets and cheerios’ to rid himself of
nuisance visitors that distract him from his own world. This is humorously
straight-talking advice on the value of a socially unacceptable register of
language when social language itself has become merely performative and
valueless. Perhaps it was conceived as a
useful concert finale for when over-excited fans keep calling for more encores!
Next up: metaphors and more.